Marriage is love.

Wednesday, June 24

Governor Sanford: Can you explain the "Sanctity of Marriage" to me again?

I wish I could say I was surprised.

Governor Mark Sanford of South Carolina, the now-former Chairman of the Republican Governors Association has been stricken by a dreaded disease now reaching pandemic proportions in the GOP.

"Can't-Keep-It-In-My-Pants Priapism"

This newly emergent disease seems to be caused by the marriage of gay men & women. It seems, as predicted within the Republican party, that when the love of a same-sex couple is granted legal status, another "traditional marriage" bites the dust. Scores of prominent Republicans have been afflicted by ridiculously engorged erections that are only satiated when inflicted on someone other than their legal spouse. Some have even turned to tapping under stalls to find relief for the member that knows no vows, feels no remorse, and who is supposed to be under the careful and well articulated control of his owner.

Alas, gay marriage has undone all this.

The sanctity of marriage has been violated and a vengeful God is now punishing the Republican faithful by making them cheat, apologize, and then divorce.

Perhaps more frightening is the knowledge that this phenomena is not limited to Republicans, but seems to be pervasive within the sanctity of the heterosexual bonds of marriage.

All kidding aside, as you know, I hate hypocrisy at every level and this is just another particularly hideous example of where the rhetoric of the Republicans does not match up with their actions.

Specifically, they scream that gay marriage will undermine the very Constitution and cause the collapse of America, while they go about their affairs without a thought to how their own behaviors are not consistent with their spoken values. As has been advanced in the past, if they really want to protect the "institution of marriage" then they need to outlaw divorce. Perhaps they would find it easier to resist temptation if they knew there was no option for escape from the punishment of "for better or for worse?"

Do those that flog us so regularly with the so-called evils of same sex marriage not see the hypocrisy of their own actions? Do they really not understand how they have fallen from the party of leadership to the small, southern regional party of the crazed religious right? On that score, if they believe so earnestly in God & His judgement, do they not see his punishment will be doubled by their own philandering ways compounded by the judgements they cast upon others in His name? Are they really surprised that the movement they started has only caused Americans to learn that gay Americans are just Americans; with bills, troubles, love, loss, and life like any other. Did they not see in their efforts to divide & frighten that they have healed and caused many to learn? Have they really not seen themselves in the mirror as the reason for their own ultimate demise?

Hypocrites are reaping what they have sown in the beds of staffers, friends, associates, prostitutes and random men & women around the nation and the world. They have violated the sanctity of marriage with "gay abandon" and yet have tried in vain to blame it on the gays.

And I know they want to badly to shift the blame to Bill Clinton, like he started it. I have one thing to say on that score, that in spite of his affair, the Clintons clearly understand the sanctity of marriage, because they still are married. They got the permanence of their own pledge to one another, and they have respected it, even when it was incredibly painful and beyond remorse.

That is what I call respect for marriage.

It takes a person who understands it to deserve it, and to be able to defend it. I am that person. My husband is that person.

Don't tread on me!

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Monday, June 22

Democrats --The New Right Wing?


The chatter on this point is gaining steam. I know Bill Maher has touched on this, and I read something on Americablog, where Senator Paul Krugman is also taking up the cause.

I am sorry, I just don't get it?

They talk about the Republican party having lost its direction? Well it seems to me they are causing confusion for some so-called "centrist" democrats. These waffling GOP wannabe Senators are not sure what position they should take on any issue without the guidance of the bat-shit-crazy GOP.

The Republicans are rapidly relegating themselves to the nut-job fringe of politics, and Senators like Lieberman are still eager to follow them. What is up with that? I thought Lieberman was enough of a political opportunist, that he would follow the popular flow, no matter where it took him or is alleged "opinion." It appears that even this king of the flip-flop has become confused and truly lost his own identity.

The obvious story here is that DEMOCRATS are sabotaging the opportunity to make meaningful changes in our health care system. Polling indicates growing majority support for reform and government involvement in the system, yet growing numbers of Democratic Senators are turning tail to support the AMA, the insurance lobby, and the GOP. This is a seminal issue for Obama, and if he allows them to destroy this first step toward "real change" then his mission of change is truly doomed. As long as politicians are willing to submit to the pressure of the lobbyists, then Americans will never be protected from those charged with keeping us healthy and strong.

I understand that the Obama approach, and that of others, is to make change palatable in increments. I just don't see the point of this when the increment is to be the smallest of baby steps toward a single payer system. We are so ridiculously in the minority on this issue, it is really a joke; and not a very funny one at that. We are 37th in the world for quality of care, and we pay the most for that care! This according to the World Health Organization:

1         France
2 Italy
3 San Marino
4 Andorra
5 Malta
6 Singapore
7 Spain
8 Oman
9 Austria
10 Japan
11 Norway
12 Portugal
13 Monaco
14 Greece
15 Iceland
16 Luxembourg
17 Netherlands
18 United Kingdom
19 Ireland
20 Switzerland
21 Belgium
22 Colombia
23 Sweden
24 Cyprus
25 Germany
26 Saudi Arabia
27 United Arab Emirates
28 Israel
29 Morocco
30 Canada
31 Finland
32 Australia
33 Chile
34 Denmark
35 Dominica
36 Costa Rica
37 United States of America

Notice who is at the top of the list? FRANCE (!); this causes my conspiratorial heart to skip a beat. Is all the France-hate rhetoric tied in part to the fact that they have the most successful health care system on the planet? One has to wonder??? What is really horrifying is that we pay MORE than any other nation for this substandard care. Wanna take this to the next level? Lets talk life expectancy. We are 24th in the world. The longest lived are in Japan, France, and Australia. There is that pesky France again! Best system, and some of the longest lived citizens on the planet. Seems they are doing something very right, while we wrestle over PROTECTING the health insurance industry.

Universal Health care is a no-brainer if someone truly steps forward to lead the charge. If someone tells every senior citizen (read baby-boomer) that taxes will go up, but they will NEVER pay for another doctors visit, procedure, or PILL; they will fall in line supporting a single payer system in numbers that would cause every Senators head to spin. Lest we should forget, and specifically we should remind the Senators, that Obama was PRIMARILY elected based in the Universal Health care angle. America supported him in record numbers on this issue, support significant enough to cause his historical election. Senators that forget this point do so at their own peril; and specifically the peril of an electoral revolt from their own constituencies.

Seriously Senators, allow me to remind you that you are DEMOCRATS! And that hiding behind being a "centrist" now means you are a RIGHT wing Democrat! The country has shifted (seismically) to the LEFT and you are in danger of being left behind. Stand in the way of real change on health care, and I promise it will come back to haunt you in the voting booth. Americans not only want, but deserve a better system that protects their lives, and their pocketbooks.

Imagine...

What happens to your retirement account when you take the cost of health care out of the equation?

Imagine...

What happens to your retirement when you no longer have to allow for paying for & taking care of aging parents?

Imagine...

What happens to your quality of life when you never have to make a choice between seeking medical care or any other item deemed a "priority?"

Imagine...

Never having to go to the Emergency Room again, unless it's an EMERGENCY; but instead going to your regular family physician or other specialist without risk of bankruptcy?

You do know the leading cause (besides loss of employment) of bankruptcies in America is over medical bills? That should tell you something right there. What could be a more clear testament to the fact our system of health care doesn't help the sick, it just drains them.

Only a RIGHT WING REPUBLICAN would defend a "free market" system like our failed health care system. Well, that is what we all thought before we were presented with a real opportunity to fix things. Now we have centrist democrats masquerading as Democrats while the drown themselves on the Kool-aid served "across the aisle." Democrats in name only, but acting increasingly like corrupt Republicans bent on protecting the status quo at all costs.

Who are these Democrats gone Rogue? Lieberman (?-CT), Ben Nelson (D-NE), Kent Conrad, (D-ND), Max Baucaus (D-MT), and Mary Landrieu (D-LA). This is the top of the list.

Now, an interesting observation on them. Something OBVIOUS they have in common. They are all from traditionally RED states. (Except Liebermann...He's just a Red state wanna be). I say they are only "democrats" on paper to begin with. Montana & Louisiana...Both known progressive states...NOT! Well, they had better get with the program or they will likely find themselves replaced in the next cycle. The days of Democrats & Americans at large not paying attention to what their representation does in Washington is at an end. And if they can't end their shenanigans then we will make sure all are reminded...Frequently...Of their sabotage of a great opportunity to make America better.

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Thursday, June 18

Obama's Big Gay Mistake

I have simmered, stewed, and am about to explode!

I think President Obama has behaved exactly as I expected, and frankly predicted. I was duped, and so were the rest of us. I was an ardent Hillary supporter specifically because I did not trust Obama on issues of gay equality. I threw my support completely behind him, and "hoped" for the best. What we have gotten as a community thus far is much less than the best; it's not the worst, but not far from there.

President Obama is playing with fire.

Seems to me that he thinks he is smarter than the gays in America. He has mistakenly lumped us into the category of Americans that don't pay attention. He has forgotten that we heard him with our own ears promise equality. He has made a critical mistake to think the LGBT community doesn't pay attention to politics. He has proven himself a fool to believe us dumb, disconnected, or willing to forgive and forget.

President Obama, you said:
"It is my strong belief that the government has to treat all citizens equally. I come from that in part out of personal experience. When you're a black guy named Barack Obama, you know what it's like to be on the outside. And so my concern is continually to make sure that the rights that are conferred by the state are equal for all people.

That's why I opposed DOMA in 2006 when I ran for the Senate. That's why I am a strong supporter not of a weak version of civil unions, but of a strong version, in which the rights that are conferred at the federal level to persons who are part of the same sex union are compatible.

When it comes to federal rights, the over 1,100 rights that right now are not being given to same sex couples, I think that's unacceptable, and as president of the United States, I am going to fight hard to make sure that those rights are available."
Source: 2007 HRC/LOGO debate on gay issues Aug 9, 2007
And then just last week you turned your back on your own words with a hatefully crafted brief that defends DOMA. I have said it before, and meant it quite sincerely, that this so-called brief could have easily been authored by Falwell, proofed by Limbaugh, and then endorsed by Rick Santorum. Not the words of a man of principle, who pleased his case with Change, hope, and a cry of "yes we can." Instead we are met with the reality of hypocrisy in Democracy, where anything is promised to get elected.

Obama caused the LGBT community to mobilize. He empowered some among us to spend; vigorously in an attempt to ensure his election. He inspired many, and now has disappointed all.

I knew as he lamely defended the choice of "x-gay" Donnie McClurkin to head up a fundraising concert series that he was no real friend of gay rights. I knew, and warned, that with the choice of Rick Warren, a new policy was being flaunted. I knew he didn't mean to help me and my partner enjoy the American birthright of equality. I knew it. I was right, and I am now horrified to have to admit it. I too was drawn into the message of hope. I too, when Hillary was cast aside, joined the Obama-bots on the march to Washington. I hoped against my own better judgement that I would be wrong, and I wasn't.

Fortunately, I am a member of a community that is paying attention. We are aware we are being used. We feel the hypocrisy of his message most keenly. I feel the worst for those in the community that supported Obama from day one, and who believed in him with all their hearts. It pains me to see them squirm as they try to defend him today. To listen as they use GOP talking points of priorities, not being able to make time for this issue and such. Still, I am encouraged by those same friends, as they peel away from defense to look on in disgust. One can't use the "gay rights aren't his biggest priority" argument when you actually read the pages long brief. And none can cling to that after yesterday's BS Memo debacle. Instead of real rights, the President thought we wouldn't notice he issued a Memo to give SOME rights to Federal Employees.

So many problems with this failed attempt at a "smoke and mirror" from the Obama administration. First, it's a MEMO! Memo's, though interesting, as null-and-void on the last day of his Presidency. Second, and more importantly, what do those few rights do for all of us (in majority) that don't work for the Federal Government? Finally, how can this Memo be seen as anything but a roadblock to equality when it fails to protect Military personnel, the majority employee group of the Federal government!? Obama, instead of placing a band aid, pulled viciously at a scab and is doing precious little to stop the bleeding.

I hate to speak critically of this President who I so admire.

It bothers me to have to call him out when I support EVERY other thing he has done so far.

It kills me to know that in spite of this, he will do more for this nation than so many generations of President's before him.

I applaud him.

Yet, inasmuch as it is my birthright to be equal under the law in America, it is also my responsibility to speak truth to power. Obama is splitting hairs with our community, and trying to walk a thinning line that allows him to pander to us without follow through. He has played the gay community for cash, and thus far is showing little in the way of remorse for his actions, words, or misdeeds.

I am still proud to call him Mister President, just not as enthusiastic as I once was; for Obama has already changed much, he has forgotten the changes we all sought were rooted in: Honesty, Integrity, and Transparency.

Obama's two-faced course correction is a serious mistake. He has mistaken us as stupid, and he will regret that decision from now until he does right by our community. We paid his way into office, and the LGBT community can pay his way right back out of it.

UPDATE! From Americablog:

The Stonewall Democrats have pulled out of the big fundraiser. I told ya that we aren't stupid and know when we have been betrayed. Never cross a queen! We aren't known for being forgiven, but rather vexed when crossed. This is a HUGE development in the story!

"...Let me put this another way. And again, no offense to Stonewall Dems. But these are folks that sometimes, some of us, think are more Dem than they are Gay. For them to stick it to the Democratic Party is rather huge. It's should be a big red warning light to the leadership of our party that this rupture with the gay community is real, and getting worse by the day.

From Ben Smith:
The members of the Board and our membership put our hopes, our dollars and our time into ensuring the election of Barack Obama because we believed that he supported us. To now have his Administration refer to our relationships in the same terms used by our long time enemies such as Pat Robertson, Jerry Falwell and James Dobson hurts on so many levels. To have our committed and loving relationships referred to as the moral equivalent of incest and pedophilia is not something that any of us ever expected from this Administration considering how hard we worked to be seen and respected. For that reason alone, advocating for attendance at a fundraiser to support the Administration and the DNC, while they have not condemned this hurtful language, is not something our membership will receive positively.

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Wednesday, May 27

Pennsylvania Senator to Introduce Marriage Equality Bill in State!

On the heels of the validation of Prop8, comes potentially good news from the state of Pennsylvania.

State Senator Daylin Leach is intending to introduce legislation in the state that would grant "full marriage equality" to same-sex couples in Pennsylvania.

From Equality Advocates of Pennsylvania:

"(Harrisburg) Civil rights organizations across Pennsylvania today commended Pennsylvania State Senator Daylin Leach for his intention to introduce legislation that would grant full marriage equality to same-sex couples. The Value All Families Coalition praised Senator Leach’s longstanding dedication to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community, calling the proposed legislation an inspiring glimpse into the future of equality for all Pennsylvania couples.

“We absolutely look forward to the day when all Pennsylvania families can enjoy the same benefits and protections under the law that heterosexual couples currently have,” said Jake Kaskey, policy and outreach coordinator of Equality Advocates Pennsylvania. “We are grateful for all of the work that Senator Leach has done on behalf of the LGBT community over the years and look forward to seeing full equality reached for all LGBT people.”

Senator Leach’s decision to introduce an inclusive marriage bill comes as other states, including Iowa and Maine, pass same-sex marriage legislation and one day after California’s Supreme Court upheld Proposition 8, an amendment to California’s constitution prohibiting marriage between same-sex couples. It also comes at a time when the Pennsylvania House of Representatives is debating House Bill 300, legislation to protect lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Pennsylvanians from discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations.

“Gay and lesbian couples deserve the same rights and responsibilities as all other married couples across Pennsylvania,” said Andy Hoover, legislative director of the American Civil Liberties Union of Pennsylvania. “We look forward to demonstrating the need to recognize every relationship across Pennsylvania.”

Senator Leach’s proposed legislation, which is currently circulating for co-sponsorship, was announced just days after another state senator, John Eichelberger (R-Blair), announced his intent to introduce a constitutional amendment that would ban same-sex marriage in Pennsylvania.

Numerous studies have shown that states that grant marriage equality to all couples receive significant economic benefits. The New York City Comptroller issued a report this week declaring that marriage equality for LGBT couples in New York would garner the state an additional $210 million in revenue in the first three years.

The Value All Families Coalition is comprised of diverse statewide, regional, and local organizations that support equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Pennsylvanians."

I haven't seen the legislation, but I will remind all to get excited with an eye towards NATIONAL marriage equality. Ultimately the FEDERAL gov't convey 1,045+ rights with marriage. State level approval is just a teaser, that until fully portable is progress, but not equality. Good news nonetheless.

Thank you Senator Leach, I couldn't have said it better myself:

“The alternative to legalizing same-sex marriage is retaining our current, archaic protocol which treats an entire group of citizens as second-class,” Leach said. “This protocol denies the reality of same-sex families, many of whom have children. It provides no vehicle by which society can encourage gay couples to do what it encourages straight couples to do: namely to form permanent, monogamous and committed life-long partnerships.”

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American Birthright: Marriage Equality

I was just letting the set-back of Prop8 settle in, knowing that the challenge would eventually end up at the Supreme Court. What other outcome could be possible? Neither side will be contented until all options are exhausted, so a ruling against it yesterday would have only inflamed the Mormon's and other radical Christians, causing them to do what is already in progress; a higher legal challenge.

Then someone asked me if I knew the opinion of the SCOTUS nominee: Circuit Court Judge Sonia Sotomayor?

I didn't in fact know that. Life has been too busy for such research. Well, I couldn't leave Paula without an answer, so I headed off too Google. What a mistake that was! I was made instantly lived when I read the following from (predictably) the UTAH Senator:

"Sen. Orrin Hatch, a Utah Republican and another GOP member of the Judiciary Committee, said conservatives are particularly eager to avoid a Supreme Court ruling akin to the 1973 Roe v. Wade decision, which legalized abortion nationwide and has divided the country ever since. "I don't think members of the court, or any of us, ever want to see a decision like that again," Hatch said.
(I apologize in advance...This will be long...But worth the read...I promise!)

I am horrified on so many levels! How did gay marriage get elevated to the evil of abortion? And how dare he say that all disagree with that decision. Sure we are divided, but that is what America is about...Room for all at the table, especially those that don't agree! I am positively furious that the nomination process is now going to be the proverbial "litmus test" on gay marriage!

Before that be allowed to take place, I think it critically important that Senators be educated about the CIVIL contract of marriage. It seems that many "religious" persons are being pigeon holed as "conservative" when even they don't share the beliefs that the most radical right-wing Christians scream as the values of EVERY American. Radical Christians have hijacked the word of GOD and turned it into a reason to legitimize hate.

What I would remind the elected Senators is that their job is NOT defined as defending religion buy as defending the Constitution of the United States of America. Gay Marriage is no threat to that document. Communism is a threat to that document. North Korean nuclear weapons are a threat to that document. Gay men & women entering a legal construct to protect one another legally is not a threat to the nation, it's a validation of the strength of our greater union. Where the rights of all are held high above the preferential definitions and arguments of the majority. Where all are equal under the law, not just those that meet certain criteria. To be protected equally as an American, you need only be an American...The rest is supposed to be automatic. Alas, it seems some Senators, Orin Hatch included, have forgotten that.

So let us review.

First of all, let us be clear, the idea of romance in marriage is new. It is quaint and utterly irrelevant to the discussion of this legal contract. Laws and the government care little about love, and who loves whom...Again, until recently and therein lays the need for discussion. We live in a land drowning in her own Puritan heritage while swimming joyfully in a selective recollection of faith and marriage and a blinding ignorance of the rules of law.

Worst of all the Mormons, with their magical underwear and their polygamous marriages are the ones leading the charge to protect "traditional" marriage. Well, I doubt most support their definition where it is "one man...and a whole bunch of women!"

But that's another issue; where was I...Oh yes...

The Church, no matter which you choose, is nothing more than a window dressing on a legal contact. You can go to any religious organization to request a wedding (notice I did not say marriage) ceremony. That organization can, and often does, at its own discretion either accept your request or deny it. Fro example, the Catholic church won't grant a ceremony to Catholic that has divorced, but the Gov't will still allow that person to legally remarry. That's because churches deal with parishioners of like beliefs. Governments deal with citizens and equality. Faith speaks of equality, but in reality the
selectively faithful aren't into equality for anything other than the lip-service it provides to sooth their own consciences.

Evangelicals will often argue that those who haven't accepted Jesus as their personal Savior will go to hell; even those who have no idea of his existence. Screwy! I don't think God or Jesus uttered any rules that say if you are a native in the African wilderness that has never seen a Christian; you will thereby be condemned to hell. But that is the point; your beliefs are your choice. They are personally unique; as your relationship or lack thereof, to God is personal.



In any event, inasmuch as God has little to do with the beliefs of atheists; so to should marriage as a legal set of rights have little to do with attributes of those seeking to enter into the contract. All they need by law is to be Americans.


By way of practical considerations, the only difference is anatomy of the players involved. Otherwise the reasons for entering the legal contract are the same: the protection of life, liberty, the pursuit of happiness, AND all the property that contributes to and ensures the aforementioned.



You see, above all else, marriage is about protecting property and relationships. Marriage isn't about God. I doubt, in spite of what you may have heard, whether God cares one way or another about who is married to whom? Those are the petty worries of man, not the lofty contemplations of a Supreme Being. Marriage is now, and has always been...Even before Christ, about the claiming, protection, and definition of property. How can so many ignore this obvious fact when you consider the history of this supposedly "sacred" union. Have we collectively forgotten about so-called "arranged marriages?" Those were not about love, God, or anything else so noble...They were about the planned & protected consolidation of power, heredity, wealth and property. Marriages are about protecting wealth and allowing for its preservation from generation to generation through a legally defined family unit. It is a construct of legal necessity, not one of religious wrangling.

Marriage is a civil construct.



In the United States of America, marriage is a manifested by a government issued license that defines and legally binds a couple. It confers, without respect to race, creed, and we hope someday, gender, approximately 1,049+ federal rights. Rights; which in the United States are by definition to be given equally to all citizens under the law. That's the ideal.



This is the reality. In many states, there will be so-called "Marriage Protection Amendments" that will exist to blur the lines of faith and the lines of government with one another. They are faith-based initiatives designed to push an agenda of hate into the legal construct of marriage. If left unchecked, this blending of religious myth and the law has far reaching and devastating potential for America. The religious-right uses so many false arguments to defend the position of need for these amendments. They claim the need for "protection." From what? They claim marriage is sacred. Then why all the divorce? They say many things, yet offer no factual defense of their own positions. It's like they are praying to a false idol.



As usual, this is a cultural divide created by Americans who don't understand something, and who are praying on the fears of others who are woefully ill informed. Whenever that happens in this great nation we get anger, hate, and a call for division or punishment. Instead of growth or living up to our stated ideal of "equality" we turn to hate, and sink to the ugliest of American traits: hateful ignorance. The kind of hate that results in men lashed naked to fences. A place in our history where it is OK to hang a man from a tree by his neck as a cross is lit aflame. A place where Americans can tie other Americans to the back of trucks and drag them to their deaths. Fear has always worked to create hate in America. Fear builds towering walls between reason and logic. Hate obliterates what we know in our hearts to be right, and covers all with ignorant rage. That is the path we are on in the name of God.



I see this ignorance as the ultimate sin.

This is an act of faith that judges in place of God and takes His name most assuredly and inappropriately in vain. In any event, it is a path we must turn away from for our own salvation as American citizens held under the Constitution of The United States of America. It is our base duty; our responsibility.



Yet, so many don't understand that rights in America are to be universal; guaranteed to every citizen under the law. Equal under the law is the other way it is expressed. Somewhere along our journey a percentage of Americans got confused, brainwashed, left-behind, whatever...And began to think of marriage as a religious doctrine not a civil construct. This misunderstanding of the nature of marriage is what has gotten us to this point.



Now, combine our need for salvation with our hate for things we don't' understand, and you have a straightforward American debate; rooted in puritanical history, conflated by individual moral superiority. This is a classic cycle we have played out over and over in our history. Whenever we are afraid of something or someone we don't understand we isolate them. Americans are not the fair-minded individuals they always claim to be. There is always some class of people unworthy of what the others have. We have lost our way, and that is why I speak on this so much.

Consider this: Marriage gets to party at the church. It gets a dress. It gets guests in pews. When the party is over, people will turn to God for guidance, but they turn to the state for a divorce!



To review; you come to the government to get married, and you go to the state to legally dissolve your marriage. You may go to church in between to help you nurture a loving relationship, but that is about as far as the relationship between faith and marriage goes. Need more in the way of reasons I demand Marriage Equality? Ok...Try these on for size:



I ask you, if someone was coming in to tell you that because you are black, Jewish, red, green, yellow or white; you weren't going to get these rights, would you just sit back and accept it? If some supposedly equal peer came along and told you that Christians were no longer eligible to inherit property from their spouses, you wouldn't be as angry as me?



Wouldn't you feel singled out if the government told you they were going to amend the constitution specifically to write you out of the society?



Worse yet, that in America the majority was allowed to VOTE on the rights of the minority?!



Sounds ludicrous doesn't it? It's not!



It has already happened, and it well on it's way to continuing! It is fundamentally wrong to add exclusive language to a document designed to guarantee the rights of all citizens. It is patently un-American and that is why it matters so much. This is not just about gay marriage. Its about who we are as a nation.



It matters to me because I have played by all the rules, and now some people are going to hijack God and use Him as the scapegoat to change the rules of the nation. Notice I said "nation" not game. The separation of church and state is one of our wisest principles, and it too is endangered by this movement; perhaps more!



America is not God's country. It's not God's fault we live here in this democracy; nor was it His plan. (If you believe in such things) It's not your job to judge on God's behalf. It's your job to love thy neighbor. It's your job not to discriminate in this the greatest land on the planet.



So in spite of 17 years of faithful devotion to my partner I am denied the legal protection critical to my relationship and our estate. I can't even pay for it if I wanted to. I can't go to a lawyer and have a will drawn up; they don't hold up in court. They aren't portable across state lines. The bank and the mortgage don't care. To none, we are legally blood; just roommates, with no legal responsibility for or to one another.



I have paid my taxes. I am an American. Marriage is law. Laws in this country apply to us all equally. So, it is my legal birthright to be allowed to marry and enjoy the rights this civil license confers on all OTHER Americans.



Period. End of discussion. Thank you very much!

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Friday, May 22

17 years...Yet we wait with hope for "with this ring I thee wed."


Today is a special day, a day filled with anticipation of a beautiful tomorrow.

As I have shared in the past, so shall I share today, that tomorrow is my Anniversary day. Tomorrow will herald the 17th year since I fell for my love. Seventeen years of bliss...With rings and promises shared between us.

Seventeen years of dedication, devotion, and dreams of the future. Seventeen years ago I pledged my heart to a man whom inexplicably captured my attention and demanded quietly that I stop and pay attention to what stands vulnerable before me. Seventeen years have passed like pages blowing in the wind, fluttering and waving frantically so as to be noticed and read. I have read every page, told every story, and to this day; seventeen years later, I remain enraptured at out tale of love for the cast was so well set.

I think of him every second of the day. I think of him with a fond smile when he is near and when he is not. I am comforted, challenged, and committed by him to us. I am in love today as I was on the first hot night when we recognized that we were fine apart; fun individuals, but far better together as loyal companions. We struck a balance that night, and inked a deal. I would love him as he would love me. I would be him because he made me better. I would protect him from any and all foes. I would give my unconditional support and be pleased to have his.

And seventeen years later, nothing has changed. The strength of our bond has but grown over time. When others have tired and surrendered to frustration, we have risen and surrendered to our shameless love for one another. We have grown so very comfortable with one another, each the expert on the whims of the other. We have grown beyond tradition and ritual. We never needed either one, because we had each other. We have stood the test of time, and the cruel predictions of those in the first year. Those that said it would "never last" have long since had to swallow their words, and smile in defeat as we march forward, year after year, to this the seventeenth.

It is unbelievable that such a long journey could feel so short. How did we arrive at seventeen? What happened to 10? How did we get so close to 20? I guess, as they say, time does fly when you are having fun.

We have shared joy, victory, and vindication.

So now, on this, the eve of our 17th Anniversary, the only thing we have left to wish for is equality. Equality in the eyes of the law that is blind to gender, blind to love, and blind in the light of so much open hostility. I have stood by my partner for 17 years, and our journey has yet begun; and I will see it to the end. What we need is the protection of a legal marriage. What we need are the 1,175+ rights and responsibilities that are so casually granted to hetero couples, and so callously denied others with a 20 dollar civil marriage contract. I have sworn my allegiance to him, and him to me...Before each other...None other is necessary; yet we are so very vulnerable. Without legal right to, and responsibility for, one another many frightening realities cloud the road ahead and make it impossible to pass.

What if in another 17 years or more, the states are still wrestling this debate, and we both become incapacitated...We could be sent to separate facilities...Because in the eyes of the law we are nothing more that strangers, unworthy of compassion, courtesy, and the dignity to pass with one another after a road long travelled.

What if either of us falls to our genetic reality and suffer a sudden and incapacitating medical complication? Worse yet, it happens in Virgina where we are legally defined as strangers, even if we have living wills? This could happen in so many states, supposedly United and equal under the Constitution; yet so very different and divided in legal reality. What then do we do? I will tell you. One will sit in a cold waiting room as the other dies quietly in a distant room, surrounded by strangers. Without the FEDERAL protection that is our birthright as Americans, we are destined to finish our journey in the most horrifyingly isolated and insensitive way possible...As legal strangers...Alone.

This is the prize for love in America. Seventeen years of unwavering care, commitment, and devotion all to be rewarded by a hateful few in a cowardly nation ripe with fanaticism placed squarely on our shoulders. Rewarded by votes where the majority is permitted to decide the rights of the minority. Rewarded by amendments that not only define, but destroy marriage. We are rewarded with nothing but pain, uncertainty, and hate; where we have done nothing wrong, played by the rules, and loved one another more purely than many, more openly than most, and with greater commitment than the enemy would like to see.

We are one. Seventeen years ago we were a unit, and today we are but a stronger one.

We are in love; purely, proudly, and without apology.

We are celebrating seventeen years together tomorrow. Seventeen glorious years with "wedded bliss" in our hearts, on our faces, and in the eyes of all that know and care for us. We are lucky. We are hopeful, humble, and good humored. We are one. "Ever thine, Ever Mine, Ever Ours." We are complete in ourselves, yet so vulnerable in the legal limbo that is a world without protection; a place cold and shallow, devoid of reason and filled with fear. We stand together in every moment, but are cast apart so casually in dreary reality of what it means to be a gay American.

We are hopeful, but wisely fearful. Fate has a twisted sense of humor, and as long as any of us is one heart beat, one tumor, or one accident from ruin, then none of us are safe...Seventeen years, or not.

So today, in spite of the gloom, I write with great enthusiasm for I think of him with every word. Tomorrow is our Anniversary, and it will be a glorious day. It will look pretty mundane to the rest of you; but to us, with love glimmering in our eyes, it will be a celebration of the day we exchanged rings in a quiet bedroom, and said for no other but ourselves: "I do."

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Thursday, May 7

Words of Wisdom from Colin Powell


Rush Limbaugh is nothing more than a "gas bag."

How is it that the fleeting members of the "base" of the Republican party are not smart enough to see that the defacto leader is ONLY doing what he does, and thereby saying what he says for

RATINGS!!!

He has no power. He has not helped any candidate he endorses to win. He is a false idol.

He is HATEFUL.

He is a radio degenerate.

A thug terrorizing the playground all by himself
. Cause all his friends have left him there by himself to throw stones.

He is the leader of the Rethuglican Party.

And...

When Colin Powell responds to him, he offers, in classic reasoned style a very accurate piece of common wisdom where "Boss" Limbaugh is concerned.

"I think what Rush does as an entertainer diminishes the party and intrudes or inserts into our public life a kind of nastiness that we would be better to do without," Powell said.
Well said. True. Accurate.

To the core of why "re-branding" of the party is required. Powell is a Republican that gets it, and if he can silence those that don't then the "old party values" of his party might survive to rule another day.

In the mean time, when I see Rush, all I really see is another stuffed PIG in dire need of some LIPSTICK! Pucker-up Buttercup!

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Arlen Specter given Chairmanship of Sub-Committee

Newly minted, and already confused, Democratic Senator Arlen Specter has been given a Chairmanship of a Sub-Committee by the Democrats. Dick Durbin stepped down as the Chairman of the Crime & Drugs Subcommittee to pass the reigns to Arlen Specter (D-PA).

This committee oversees about 60% of the justice department according to CNN. More importantly, this puts him dead in the center of the debate on the coming Supreme Court nominations of Barack Obama. This is a big deal!!! Especially interesting as so many of the objections to him are rooted in his cross-examination of Anita Hill during the Clarence "Coke Can" Thomas confirmation hearings. (Speaking of which...There is a movement underway on the blogs to recruit her for the opening on the SCOTUS!)

Not too shabby for a man that was just two weeks ago in the minority party. Most spectacular of all is that this was taken from Dick Durbin (D-IL) who is the second most senior member of the party in the Senate. This speaks volumes to how the Democrats are not only happy to have Specter, but want to make sure he is happy with his decision.

Classic case of give and take in politics. Everything is a negotiation, and it seems the skilled Specter is winning all the negotiations!

Good for you Arlen. Keep them on their toes, that's what you are known for.

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Ridge is out! Senate Race of the Century CANCELLED!


I am so glad Tom Ridge has seen the light; he is not running for the 2010 Senate Seat opposite of recent party defector Arlen Specter.

This BLUE state is so over the former Governor that tried to head Homeland Security. He proved himself a rather lackluster lap dog for George Dumbya and Dickity-do Cheney. To be fair to Tom Ridge, I think his own ethics were what made him a poor candidate for that job. He had standards and moral fiber, where his bosses had none, and that caused him to never really have his heart in the job.

I think that same conscience would have ruled him had the Rush-Party gotten thier wish and pushed him into the Senate race.

Tom Ridge is not that Republican. That's why he was popular in this state. He is a centrist Republican who was being pushed by the same GOP machine that caused moderate Specter to leave the party in the first place. Ultimately, after much speculation, I think Tom Ridge made a smart decision. Not for party, but for himself and for his own self respect. He is no Rushie...And they can't force Tom into that mold.

So, inasmuch as I was never a great fan of Tom Ridge, I would like to congratulate him for standing his ground, maintaining his own personal integrity, and not helping the desperately dying RIGHT WING of his party!

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May The Month of the Gays!

Yesterday the state of Maine won the race to be 5th in the nation to make gay marriage legal.

New Hampshire should follow in short order.

The District of Columbia (51st state) has passed an ordinance that will allow DC to legally recognize any legal marriage from any state.

Some GOP'rs are freaking out.

So last election cycle.

And they wonder why they are becoming relegated to the antique shelf?!

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Thursday, April 30

MAY 1 -- Big Day to be Gay in Sweden!

If you are in love and looking to get married to your partner!

Tomorrow is the first day gay Swede's can legally marry.

Have fun and Congrats!

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Swine Flu Comign to Public Transportation Near You!

As our "pandemic" really ratchets up, the Vice President urged Americans to shun public transportation. Fifteen states are now reporting confirmed cases. (MSNBC has a cool intereactive map to show you the states, cases, and outcomes...Click here) (THIS is the simliar world map of confirmed cases)

I would go one step further and encourage Americans to be personally responsible and vigilant. Sure, regular seasonal flu kills more than this emerging virus has, but the fear (rightfully or not?) is that the virus could mutate to a more deadly version at any time. The more humans who are exposed, the greater the statistical chance that the virus could change and then become not only insanely easy to transmit, but also lethal.

Seriously, to those nay-sayers out there, myself included...

Think about this.

Cases are confirmed as the appear. The reality of that is that MANY more will appear shortly. Those we are seeing reports of are the ones that have already passed the incubation period for the virus. I would venture to bet countless others are infected but not yet showing symptoms. Just going about their lives as usual, spreading the disease without a care in the world. Incubation is 24 to 48 hours, and that is when it's easiest to pass along.

So...

Be diligent & vigilant. Take your vitamins, drink your OJ, do your exercises and stay healthy. Cover your mouth. Don't touch your face. Wash your hands frequently. Buy some Lysol and use it. If you get sick, don't give it to everyone around you. Stay home, get anti-viral drugs and recover without involving the rest of us. (More information from the CDC: HERE)

Really, this is about common sense and what your Grandmother would do, which is keep you home if you were sick. Don't be stubborn, the rest of us will thank you for not sharing your crud.

;-)

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Maine: Add Another to the ranks of trying for Marriage Equality

Maine has leaped forward in the fight for equality. Their version of the bill has made it past the Senate in Maine, and should have little problems in the House. The Governor, as they seem prone to do, is non-committal on what he will do if the bill comes before him for his signature.

A similar situation is happening in New Hampshire, which came this far through the process yesterday.

As they say, "As Iowa goes, so goes the nation."

I personally would like the to hurry up already. This surge in civil rights needs to catch like a wildfire in the Santa Anna area. If the momentum picks up then perhaps the Obama Administration will make this a higher priority, and then we can get married by or ON(!) our 20th Anniversary. How cool would that be?!

So, that gives the Federal Government 3 years to get with the program. That should be more than enough time.

Congrats Mainiacs!

On a side, and additionally encouraging in Maine, they tried to make this a ballot issue and that was rejected. You see, unlike California, the people of Maine understand that you don't allow the majority to decide the rights of the minority. Which, in my opinion, is the greatest failing of our Democracy in recent history. Never should the majority of California been allowed to tell the minority that they are lesser, and thereby legislated a second class citizen...Officially!

Shameful.

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Wednesday, April 29

So far so good...For the gays.

The Vermont Senate passed a Gay Marriage bill, that has already passed the state house.

AND...

The House of Representatives passed the Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Bill. Now off to the Senate. I wonder how Arlen will vote?

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Oh No She Didn't! Virgina Foxx (R-NC) Just called Matthew Shepard's Death a "HOAX"

I am so angry I can barely see straight!

Time to call this Republican woman and let her know why it is that her party is in the crapper with America!

This is what she said today on the floor of the House:

(via Americablog:)
If you didn't vote for this bill -- against this bill and against this rule for anything else, you could vote against it because we are spending additional money. i also would like to point out that there was a bill -- the hate crimes bill that's called the Matthew Sheppard bill is named after a very unfortunate incident that happened where a young man was killed, but we know that that young man was killed in the commitment of a robbery. it wasn't because he was gay. this -- the bill was named for him, hate crimes bill was named for him, but it's really a hoax that that continues to be used as an excuse for passing these bills.
Are you kidding me?!

And the party wonders why Republicans are jumping ship? It's because it's SINKING under the weight of so much hate & ignorance!

Call her and let her have it!!! We need protection from HER!

Phone: (202) 225-2071
Phone: (336) 778-0211
Phone: (828) 265-0240

And then call your own Representatives and demand they support the Shepard Hate Crimes Legislation! Look your rep up here.

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Lipstick on a Flu-ridden Pig! Mark sums it up.

Mark over at Dispassionate Liberal has an accurate assessment of the Swine Flu that I think might be a useful read for MOST of you out there.

Twice in as many days, the acting Director of the Centers for Disease Control noted that the U.S. averages about 36,000 annual deaths from seasonal flu every year -- the kind of flu you've had before and lived to complain about. 98 Americans die of "normal" influenza every day -- day after day.

Tragic that it is for 150 people to have died so far from this H1N1 "swine" flu strain, let's say the Mexico outbreak ends up ten times worse than it is now, resulting in 1,500 total deaths. Let's also reduce the affected population to just the greater Mexico City population -- The largest metro area in the western hemisphere at 22 million -- which might see as many as 40% catching this bug according to one of the latest alarmist headlines.

Again, to quote Mark: "It's the flu, not the plague."

So stop google-ing "Swine Flu Symptoms." Silly humans.

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"Benedict Arlen" -- Limbaugh is Loosing it!

Ah...The joys of watching a political party implode!

How did this happen so quickly? Seriously, just on the heels of George W Bush the nation is now experiencing a seismic shift in tone. Over 79% of Americans now identify themselves as NOT Republican! This is no accident, it is the lasting legacy of George Bush, Rush Limbaugh, Karl Rove, Dick Cheney, and FOX News.

Clearly, when Americans signaled that they were ready for "Change" these idiots turned a blind eye and refused to believe it. Collectively they fail to see they are now the "crazy fringe" rattling a saber against the bars of progress. They finally have shown themselves in a light that is not flattering; where lying, misinterpreting, and fear tactics are blindingly obvious and no longer scary. America took a very long time to wake up, but she is sitting up straight in the chair now and paying attention in the front row of the class. The Republican party has been hijacked by the most fanatical members. It has been relegated to ridicule by the majority of the nation, and the frothier Rush gets, the more the majority "non-republicans" just shake their heads in disbelief. You can almost hear the disapproving "tsk-tsk-tsk."

Welcome to the "new century" Dick Cheney! The century you ushered in and then corrupted with corporate greed, cronyism, and religious zealotry; all under the name of Republican. For way too long your shenanigan's went unnoticed by your constituents, those who thought that being a Republican meant small government, fiscal responsibility, and family values. Well those former Republicans, Arlen Specter included, now see that a "family value" is based in the most common bond of love, not the artificially hyped matter of who loves whom...And how! Former Republicans in increasing numbers, as Democrats are seeing that the party of fiscal intelligence is the one they are now members of, not the one you allowed to drive the nation into debt with. Americans in the vast majority are rejecting the hatred & anger of Rush, Rove, O'Reilley, and Cheney for the reasoned, controlled, and honest approaches of Obama.

The Republican party is one in its final death throws. The great party of Reagan destroyed in 8 years by lies for war, lies for profit, and lies for power. I have to say, it is great fun to watch them reap what they have sown. My faith in America and her ideals is restored with every switch in registration, with every story of "i always voted Republican before..." and with every un-protested marriage in Iowa. "As Iowa goes, so goes the nation." When protests of newly approved "gay marriage" in Iowa never materialized, you knew that the fringe is losing. The religious wrong are being relegated to the church shelves in a dark and dirty corner where they can be forgotten. They have the Republicans to thank for this too.

So today, just a single day after the highly symbolic and strategically brilliant shift of Arlen Specter to the Democratic party, Rush Limbaugh is calling him names and telling him to take the McCain's with him! How great would it be for John McCain, the Republican torch bearer in the last election to switch parties? Truly that would be the last nail in the Republican casket. A party relegated to hate in the South; legitimized only by racists, religious fanatics, and other social outcasts. 79%(!) That is a remarkable number of Americans that see the Republicans as out of touch. An insane number statistically that see the Republican agenda as the almost hysterically wrong direction for America; and the party brought it on themselves. And its going to get worse for them as long as Dick Cheney keeps trying to blame Obama for fantasies that never even had a glimmer of reality in the rhetoric that spills from his heartless pie-hole.

60 votes to block a filibuster. Finally a legitimate majority that sees the future and isn't afraid to confront it. It is time. It's my time. It's your time. It is time for progress and eyes to a bright American future. Death has come to the politics of fear, and life to the politics of HOPE!

I want to thank Rush, FOX News, Dick Cheney, and the Republican "leadership" for squeezing out the moderates in their party. I want to thank them for pushing so hard, lying so transparently, and for ranting so insanely. It is to them America owes it's thanks; for without them we might still live in a land where Americans believe Republicans to represent principles, ideals, and realities that were consistent with their heritage. Instead, we live in a land where Americans see the title "Republican" has been stolen, corrupted, and destroyed by those so greedy they would readily and without conscience sends citizens to War for nothing so valuable as life, but as base as a buck.

So thanks to the leadership for squeezing Arlen & all those voters in the middle. Thanks to them for forcing them to choose "HOPE" over a party bent on self destruction. Thanks to them for saving us all from them!

So I would like to echo Rush's crazed response, and implore John, Cindy & Meghan McCain to consider switching teams. Moderates like him have no place in GOP-land; but the Democrats have space at the table if they would like to take a winning seat.

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Tuesday, April 28

60...What a magical number...In Theory.

Arlen Specter (D-PA) is just the latest symbol of a party on the verge of total collapse.

It is amazing, and kind of heart-warming, to watch the GOP surgically remove it's nose to spite its face. How blind are they to reality? Seriously folks, when the party decides to abandon a "Reagan Big-Tent" Republican with such power in the Senate in favor of the likes of Toomey; what are they thinking? The Rush-Rove power train is off the rails!

The Republican party is relegating itself to a small southern regionalized party without power or a reality based plan for the future. To say "how the mighty have fallen" would be a gross understatement of the current affairs of this recent political powerhouse. They have hooked themselves so heartily on the teet of whack-job conservatism that they are causing members to bail ship?!

Specter sees the ship sinking. He knows that they aren't throwing him a life preserve, but instead and pushing his head under the water because he voted against the leadership. I say good for him! I have always like Specter because he was more prone to actually vote his conscience than any of his peers. He has done it more than once, and will surely do it more than a few times as the new Democratic Senator for the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania.

So, though many are excited about the magic 60 filibuster-proof number, I say not so fast. A vote from Arlen Specter has never been guaranteed to go where you think it should.

However, is realignment with the constituency in Pennsylvania is a brilliant move that will require him to move left if he does in fact hope to be reelected. Now, he won't have to move very far left because the constituents that are most prone to vote for him are new Democrats themselves.

The only Republicans left in Pennsylvania are the frothy-Rick Santorum lovers. The most irrational, easy to anger, and obnoxiously misinformed members of the party....Otherwise known as the "base" are all that remain in this BLUE State. Those remaining voters are the most rabid conservatives America can produce, and they LOVE Toomey. Toomey is the candidate the GOP leadership has decided to support instead of Specter. And the reality is that Specter would loose to Toomey.

This would be an unmitigated failure for the people of Pennsylvania. Especially if a less than adequate challenger emerged from within the ranks of the Democrats.

So Senator Specter saw the writing on the wall, and rightfully so said "to hell with this" and switched to Democrat.

So now there is the potential for a filibuster-proof majority in the Senate, but it is only a potential. Specter will not vote party line, he never has and I don't see that changing any time soon. But there will be items he will happily support that the *New Republican party will cringe at the thought of. And good for him! It is time they reap what they have sown by threatening Specter. He's a pit bull, and they are going to get the teeth from him.

Toomey is doomed, which is a huge victory for the State of Pennsylvania.

So I think we owe a great many votes of thanks to Arlen. Sure he has done this to insure his survival, but he has done so by showing clearly that he needs the BLUE majority too. He understands that he represents the majority constituents of Pennsylvania and our agendas...So he has rightfully changed his party affiliation to reflect those he represents.

Brave move, and I am proud of him for it.

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Arlen Specter is going to become a DEMOCRAT!

That's the word on the street.

I wonder if he is really going to go all Lieberman on us or not?

It's not a rumor! He's done it!

On MSNBC:

WASHINGTON - Veteran Republican Sen. Arlen Specter announced Tuesday that he is switching parties, a move would give Democrats a filibuster-proof 60 seats if Al Franken is seated in the Minnesota race.

"I have decided to run for re-election in 2010 in the Democratic primary," the Pennsylvania senator said in a statement.

"I now find my political philosophy more in line with Democrats than Republicans," Specter said, adding that the "change in party affiliation does not mean that I will be a party-line voter any more for the Democrats that I have been for the Republicans."

Holy crap! I am so excited!!!

CNN is also following the story.

Pennsylvania NOW has TWO Democratic Senators!!! Yeah us.

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Monday, April 27

Allow me to introduce Calvin and his "Nuggets of Wisdom"

Calvin is one of my dearest friends. He his humorous, quick-witted, gay, politically astute, and wickedly intelligent.

He has finally (!!!!) opened his own blog, and will be sharing his wisdom with the world...One post at a time.

It is my mission in life to share the vast mountains of wisdom that I have acquired with those less fortunate around me. That is why I created "Calvin's Nuggets of Wisdom".

This is a collection of the wisdom I have garnered during my short time on this Earth; to be used as a guide for folks to help them through this crazy maze we call “life”.

Those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it. Learn from my nuggets. Don't be doomed… if you can avoid it.
Welcome to the Blogsphere my dear friend.

Please give him a warm welcome by visiting "Calvin's Nuggets of Wisdom"

Teaser...Today's "nuggets" include how do get rid of lingering party guests, and hints on how to avoid serial killers. Very valuable stuff!!!

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Obstructionists: The Hypocrisy of the GOP

Remember when the GOP was the minority party a few years back and how they wanted to "go nuclear" on the filibuster? To stand in the way of our democratic process so that they could further their agenda of "rubber stamping" the Rove agenda? Do you remember how that same party was threatening a filibuster in the current session because they saw it as their moral obligation against the Democrats?

You know that they call that kind of crap?

HYPOCRISY! And the GOP is full of it.

Imagine the shit-storm they would launch if a Republican Senator had been elected, even by the thinnest of margins, and then not permitted to be seated. They would freak out! Yet, today they see fit to continue to obstruct the election of Senator Al Franken. In spite of the "will of the people," Norm Coleman at the direction of the GOP leadership continues to stretch (in vain) his fantasy of maintaining his seat in the Senate. He lost, he knows it, and so does everyone else.

What do we call this?

OBSTRUCTIONISM

This is a purely political ploy designed to forestall the inevitable as along as is legally possible. It is the most shameful, classless, and un-democratic thing I have seen in American politics in a very long time.

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Friday, April 17

History...It Starts Today?!

OK...

It is time to return to vent my frustrations at my fellow Americans. And by "fellow Americans" I mean those who are so lost to prejudicial ignorance that they can no longer either recognize or realize rational thought.

To watch the right-wing fringe frantically genuflect before the alters of small government, high taxes, and economic conservatism is the saddest thing I have witnessed in such a very long time. Especially so, because I have "friends" whom I know to be otherwise intelligent and compassionate down on their knees before the false idle of the Republican Party.

Is it possible the "tea-bagger" had lost every ounce of reason, every shred of historical accuracy, and every piece of his or her own dignity? One must think the answer is "yes." How else could they stand up in such small, yet highly vocal, numbers and declare they believe in small government when it was their Savior, former President George W Bush, who allowed the government to grow rampantly out of control the largest it has ever been? How do they shun the entitlements of the FDA, Homeland Security, FEMA, Social Security Administration, and countless others? None are willing to give up anything, but all want to pay for nothing; how typical. How do they ignore the facts and waive banners about debt? How do they make history start on inauguration day?


"Human history becomes more and more a race
between education and catastrophe."
- H. G. Wells

How is it possible that the "base" of the Republican party, at the hands of Rush Limbaugh & Fox NEWS, can so easily distracted from historical fact by phony rantings so pitifully constructed to whip the faithful into a frenzy of ignorance and blinded hate? Are those faithful members of the base truly that ignorant of America? How do they miss that unless they make more than $250,000 annually, their taxes went down? I thought GOP'ers loved lower taxes!? Instead, when presented with the truth...The "booo?!" I thought that was one of their 10 commandments...Thought shalt pay less to the government. Well that is what they are getting, as the bills for the DEBT wracked up by George W Bush is shifted to those he made so rich on all our shoulders. How do these otherwise intelligent people ignore the reality of such incredibly recent & collectively accepted history? How do they make the debt something that happened in the last 60 or so days? How do they make history start on inauguration day?


"People demand freedom of speech to make up for
the freedom of thought which they avoid."
- Soren Aabye Kierkegaard

How is it possible that otherwise intelligent Americans can be swept up in the lies of political rhetoric based in fantasy, rather than the real actions of the new President. How can I have friends that say "Down with Obama," and "down with Socialism?" I know they are smart enough to know what socialism is, and to see the err in their own words. Besides that, how do they ignore their own hypocrisy in these cries? Same goes to the "gun freaks." Where the President just yesterday proclaimed he would NOT reauthorize the ban on assault weapons; somehow the crazed crew of 2nd Amendment supporters (as if as an American you can be anything but a 2nd Amendment supporter) still wish to say, with spittle falling from their lips that Obama will take their guns! I say, settle down there Sparky, that's not true. And in 8 years, I expect you to learn a few things. Top of the list, no politician will take your precious guns! Gun ownership in America is as American as Apple Pie. It is a political football they love to throw at Democrats, but no one takes the bait. Why? Cause nothing could be a clearer sign of political suicide than to suggest the ultimate heresy against our American souls...The taking of arms. And don't get started with Rendell today, he's a governor about to be replaced...Making waves before he leaves. No one in the legislature of PA will touch this, and you know it. Again, a football...A game. So...Try to learn not to fall for this. The Gun Lobby, the NRA, they are just corporations looking to make money by whipping up fear where no fear should exist. They are being played, like an AK47 at a Skeet Range. Yet, in spite of the facts; history is written from today?

"We are not retreating - we are advancing
in another Direction."
- General Douglas MacArthur


Bailouts...Without oversight...So unpopular. How do the frothiest of hosts on FOX ignore that those were authorized, and authored by the last President? The bailouts on Wall Street were given by George W Bush, not President Barack Obama. Worse yet, and clearly unpopular, they are working! Two banks have posted record profits, and are already starting to pay back the money from the taxpayers. I am mystified by the revisionists here...Where it all started on Inauguration day. How, in less than 90 days time, does an entire segment of the American populace forget who put us in this terrible mess?

"I do not feel obliged to believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense, reason, and intellect has intended us to forgo their use." - Galileo Galilei
I know they are the minority. But to be so blindingly ignorant of the truth, and arrogant in their ignorance is very unsettling to me. How can so many be tuned to one station, one set of impulses, and dialed in so hypocritically and completely to a set of beliefs that are so clearly fantasy? Surely the rapture has nothing on the hate of these few for all things progressive, democratic, and real; even if they work. How do they ignore the history of the last 8 years, and cling so powerfully to the myths of the Republican machine, when they machine no longer believes what they still do? Big government was the reality of Bush, even though he said it wasn't. Debt was the way of Bush, even though he said it wasn't. Economic disaster is the legacy of Bush, even though he told us "the fundamentals of our economy are strong." It is at his feet they pray, paying homage to the father of lies. It is your patron saint that you should blame for the disasters of your party, our heritage, and the American economy.


"Nothing in the world is more dangerous than
sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity."
- Martin Luther King Jr.

But no...That is a use of intellect that is beyond the "faithful" for faith has nothing to do with reality. Faith is about belief, and beliefs need not be grounded in fact. In fact, facts are almost exclusively at odds with beliefs. So it is no mistake that history is ignored. It is no mistake the frothy minority ignores the reality of their own religion. Just as the Catholics ignored the abuses of Priests against children, the GOP parishioners are somehow able to turn a blind eye to the leadership, actions, and deeds of their own. Rush tells them to pray, and to their knees they fall; mesmerized by the ideas of one who would like to be a God, and to them is the best priest they have ever seen. But this is a fringe religion, a right-wing conspiracy gone rabid, a cult if you will.

I think history demands and exorcism. History deserves an intervention.


"All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."
- Arthur Schopenhauer

Republicans need a history lesson...Cause though history is made today, it didn't start on inauguration day. To dream of the future, fearfully or hopefully, one must first accept and understand what the dream is built on and from where it was made.

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Tuesday, February 17

PA House District 05: Letter from Congressman Glenn Thompson

I am amazed at how quickly a "freshman" congressman learns to play GOP "follow the leader" instead of actually showing support for his constituents. Glenn Thompson has learned quickly indeed.

This is the letter he sent me to justify his voting "no" on the stimulus bill.

worst.congressman.ever.

Thank you for contacting me regarding the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act of 2009, more commonly referred to as "the stimulus" bill. I appreciate hearing from you and value your opinion on this important matter.

The American people are suffering from unstable housing markets, staggering job losses, and an overall lack of confidence in our financial system. In the fall of 2008 Congress made an apparently unsuccessful attempt to bring stability to the credit markets with passage of the $750 billion Troubled Asset Relief Program (TARP). While I was not a member of Congress at the time, I strongly opposed this package - the majority in Congress simply did not address the root of the problem.

For several years aggressive policies here in Washington encouraged homeownership for all Americans, often on shaky terms and for too many who could not afford it. While an admirable goal, these policies needed to place focus on educating new homeowners and providing opportunities that would assist in the responsible growth of homeownership in America.

Unfortunately, these economic troubles have spread to other portions of the economy and Congress cannot afford to be silent. On January 28th the House took up a stimulus package that I could not support because once again, the Democrats who control Congress did not address the root of the problem. Rather than producing a bipartisan measure that empowered smart government solutions through incorporating tax cuts for hard working American families, the majority effectively locked the Republican minority party out of negotiations and loaded the bill with costly direct spending on expansions of programs that have nothing to do with stimulating the economy.

While there were many worthwhile programs included in the package that I whole heartedly support, such as increased funding for shovel ready transportation and infrastructure projects, we have learned from the failures of TARP that Congress must stop throwing our taxpayer's money at our problems. I was extremely disappointed to find in the end, transportation and infrastructure was not even 3.5% of the final bill - less than a one year of federal highway funding to the states. Unfortunately, this bill is nothing more than an expansion of big government and will cost upwards of $1.7 trillion. More egregious, is that fact that this stimulus package will only put 11 percent of that money in the marketplace during 2009.

Following my promise of always working to ensure your tax dollars are wisely spent here in Washington, I have joined with my colleagues in supporting an alternative plan that will create twice the jobs at half the cost.

o We must provide tax relief for working families; therefore we must lower the individual and joint tax rates, which will keep more money in the taxpayer's pocket.

o Small businesses employ most of the American workforce. These businesses keep our economy afloat, yet often face tax rates that absorb upwards of 40% of their profits. By providing relief for these small businesses they will be able to expand and in turn hire more employees.

o Unemployment benefits for those workers who have lost their jobs are currently taxed as income. Congress must suspend taxes on unemployment and let those facing tough times focus on providing for their families.

o The housing markets must be stabilized and confidence in the markets restored. One immediate way would be to encourage federal tax incentives to expand the supply of affordable housing available for purchase by qualified individuals and first time home buyers.

Tax incentives alone cannot create jobs, however direct spending must be targeted and precise or we run the risk of continuing to throw money at the problem. As we move forward, I look to work with the Administration, Democrats, and my fellow Republicans in achieving non partisan, smart government solutions. These goals can only be achieved through the democratic process, not top down

governance that prevents input from the elected officials the people have chosen to represent them. Together we can work to stabilize our housing markets and get America through these tough times, back to work, and looking forward to future prosperity.

Again, thank you for contacting me. For more information on my policies and happenings around the 5th District, please visit my website at www.thompson.house.gov. There you can sign up to receive periodic updates via my e-newsletter, The Thompson Times.

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Tuesday, January 20

Actions speak Louder...But these words are Powerful!

If you haven't already been, I encourage you to visit WhiteHouse.gov.

President Barack Obama has laid out in great detail his plans for America and the details that outline our hopeful "Change."

I am not usually one for these kind of lists from politicians, but it is one thing to list an "agenda" on your campaign site. It is something entirely different to list an "Agenda" on your WhiteHouse page as the newly sworn in President. In this instance, Obama scored huge points for change! This is a direct, no apologies approach to governing from the White House that we have NEVER seen! Candor and honesty are Obama's currency and he intends to spend them well.

Example one...That speaks most clearly to me...Gay Marriage! Obama's White House page has an entire SECTION dedicated to LGBT rights on his Agenda. Allow me to cut and paste! (I read it in awe!)

Support for the LGBT Community

"While we have come a long way since the Stonewall riots in 1969, we still have a lot of work to do. Too often, the issue of LGBT rights is exploited by those seeking to divide us. But at its core, this issue is about who we are as Americans. It's about whether this nation is going to live up to its founding promise of equality by treating all its citizens with dignity and respect."

-- Barack Obama, June 1, 2007

  • Expand Hate Crimes Statutes: In 2004, crimes against LGBT Americans constituted the third-highest category of hate crime reported and made up more than 15 percent of such crimes. President Obama cosponsored legislation that would expand federal jurisdiction to include violent hate crimes perpetrated because of race, color, religion, national origin, sexual orientation, gender identity, or physical disability. As a state senator, President Obama passed tough legislation that made hate crimes and conspiracy to commit them against the law.
  • Fight Workplace Discrimination: President Obama supports the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, and believes that our anti-discrimination employment laws should be expanded to include sexual orientation and gender identity. While an increasing number of employers have extended benefits to their employees' domestic partners, discrimination based on sexual orientation in the workplace occurs with no federal legal remedy. The President also sponsored legislation in the Illinois State Senate that would ban employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.
  • Support Full Civil Unions and Federal Rights for LGBT Couples: President Obama supports full civil unions that give same-sex couples legal rights and privileges equal to those of married couples. Obama also believes we need to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act and enact legislation that would ensure that the 1,100+ federal legal rights and benefits currently provided on the basis of marital status are extended to same-sex couples in civil unions and other legally-recognized unions. These rights and benefits include the right to assist a loved one in times of emergency, the right to equal health insurance and other employment benefits, and property rights.
  • Oppose a Constitutional Ban on Same-Sex Marriage: President Obama voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment in 2006 which would have defined marriage as between a man and a woman and prevented judicial extension of marriage-like rights to same-sex or other unmarried couples.
  • Repeal Don't Ask-Don't Tell: President Obama agrees with former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff John Shalikashvili and other military experts that we need to repeal the "don't ask, don't tell" policy. The key test for military service should be patriotism, a sense of duty, and a willingness to serve. Discrimination should be prohibited. The U.S. government has spent millions of dollars replacing troops kicked out of the military because of their sexual orientation. Additionally, more than 300 language experts have been fired under this policy, including more than 50 who are fluent in Arabic. The President will work with military leaders to repeal the current policy and ensure it helps accomplish our national defense goals.
  • Expand Adoption Rights: President Obama believes that we must ensure adoption rights for all couples and individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation. He thinks that a child will benefit from a healthy and loving home, whether the parents are gay or not.
  • Promote AIDS Prevention: In the first year of his presidency, President Obama will develop and begin to implement a comprehensive national HIV/AIDS strategy that includes all federal agencies. The strategy will be designed to reduce HIV infections, increase access to care and reduce HIV-related health disparities. The President will support common sense approaches including age-appropriate sex education that includes information about contraception, combating infection within our prison population through education and contraception, and distributing contraceptives through our public health system. The President also supports lifting the federal ban on needle exchange, which could dramatically reduce rates of infection among drug users. President Obama has also been willing to confront the stigma -- too often tied to homophobia -- that continues to surround HIV/AIDS.
  • Empower Women to Prevent HIV/AIDS: In the United States, the percentage of women diagnosed with AIDS has quadrupled over the last 20 years. Today, women account for more than one quarter of all new HIV/AIDS diagnoses. President Obama introduced the Microbicide Development Act, which will accelerate the development of products that empower women in the battle against AIDS. Microbicides are a class of products currently under development that women apply topically to prevent transmission of HIV and other infections.
To say I was not optimistic of Obama's intentions where my life specifically was concerned would be a gross understatement. This simple declaration on the official website of the President of the United States of America, changes everything for me.

This is why we voted for HOPE!

This is why we voted for CHANGE!

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Twelve Noon...

Change arrived officially as the 2oth Amendment dictated the end of George W Bush's reign of terror on our Constitution.

President Obama was spectacular in his first speech as the 44th President of the United States of America.

I am mostly pessimistic with the content of those speeches, but President Obama has never taken me as one who speaks in terms of promises he has any intention of not making good on. He ran on "change" because he knows that change is what we need if we are to not only survive, but thrive as a nation. Those changes will be dramatic, they will affect us all, and they will be met with open arms by most.

Alas, some of the Bushies & GOP holdouts will cast a doubtful eye and utter words of an era gone by because that is all they know. Today, just moments after the swearing in I saw two facebook posts, neither less informed than the other. One said that she would "not drink any Koolaid or join any herds" today, and the other said he was "afraid of the coming socialism." Only those so addicted to the hallucinogens in the KoolAid already would say such things at this late date. So sad to consider on this, our day of American salvation that there are those who would stand in proud support of the worst president in our history: George W Bush?!

But ENOUGH about him! His presidency has come to a close. He has ridden off to Texas to play on his ranch and dream of ponies.

Today is about a new future...A renewed future!

Welcome President Obama! We look forward to your every move, your every well thought out decision, and your history yet to be written.

As he said of our past, I will expect for our future; "For Us..."

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Friday, January 16

20 Minutes...


5pm on a Friday night. A magical time for all of us when the week ends and the weekend begins.

Also a magical time for George W Bush, Karl Rove, and all the other spin-meisters at Hotel Dumbya (soon to be returned to the White House).

Fridays were traditionally the day, around now...Late in the afternoon, that Dumbya and Company would air out particularly hideous new stories, burying them in our rush to put the week behind us. Hiding theirs sins in our noise to put the week behind us.

Well...

Today is just another of those Fridays...Except it's not.

Today, most of the players in the Bad-ministration will pick up their last checks, turn in their phones, and close their computers down for the last time. Today, at 5pm most will leave the White House behind...For good!

"For good." That is appropriate on so many levels.

The worst president ever will leave us for good. Gone forever from the soon to be again hallowed halls of US government. Returning the "good" of America to those that would have it, those that understand it, and those that are not so ruled by fear as to be willing to sacrifice it for their own greedy brand of "free."

Today is finally the real beginning of the end for our long national nightmare. Today symbolizes the end of a whole breed of politics, where diversion, lies, fear, and hate reign supreme under the auspices of arrogance, ignorance, and ego. Finally, America will be returned to us. She is bruised, battered, but far from dead. George, Karl, and Dick did what they could with the support of the GOP ruled Congress to demolish democracy forever, but they failed. America finally opened her eyes and saw the wisdom in the words of authors, bloggers, news casters, and world powers. America has paid dearly for the antics and the lies of George W Bush; our wounds are deep, and many are permanent. We will all weep for every life lost on the follies of Iraq. Some of us still pray for justice for a President gone rogue as he so eagerly cast so many others in his wake.

I pray for Hope.

I pray for the promise that is our Constitution. I pray for he victories of truth over lies, principals over pay-outs, and America ahead of ideology. I hope that George Bush is remembered, for every day...This day to the end...As the American President who lied. The American President who stole. The American President that nearly destroyed us, and as the one that caused the most seismic shift in the nation.

You see; Bush's Legacy takes office on January 20th. President Elect Barack H. Obama is the Bush Legacy in the flesh. Bush drove us to Hope for change. He drove us to vote for Change. He insured that we would demand Change, and we have!

Vision will become reality in just a few short days. Time will heal all, and wisdom will win out where it was denied at every turn in the recent past. Bush will be cast out forever, and America will be reinstalled. President Obama has my hope in his hands. And I voted for him because I know he understands the value of that hope.

So...Today is not just any Friday...It's the last Friday. And as I press "publish" I do it with a hopeful grin on my face, because I know for many...It is the last Friday they will be in Washington DC! This is the last Friday before Dumbya hangs his head in shame for the final time and walks off into the sunset as a failure, a loser, and the worst president in our history.

Congratulations to us all. Take a deep breath, the future is bright, and this blog is back in business...Pridefully!

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